Leaders

So in a group of friends as a general rule most people think there should not be a friend. How then as a group of friends do you do anything? In most groups of friends there is often one person who stands up and says 'we should go and do...'

For a small think such as a party or a day trip, does not take to much organising, depending on what you are doing.

But getting a camp done, several times for a whole week - that would be a challange. You have to put yourself out there, be bitched about for not being nice. Listen to people complain how things are not fair and all that sort of stuff. Thing is though, once you have been such a strong leader within a group it can be hard to step back and not be so bossy. Everyone soon forgets that they were the awesome person who organised the camp, prob soothed out many arguments. As within a group particuarly a big group that is classified within a school as 'social outcasts' and what not people are at many different levels of maturity, have different backgrounds, so are completely different types of people.

Having a big group keep together over so many years is pretty rare, without at least half of them at least leaving. Only way to keep together is often do the big things which need a leader. Just dont ever forget what they have done for you in the past as likely they would do it for you again in a second.